Sunday, July 31, 2011

Help(er) Needed...Granted

What is life like being a foreign missionary?, you may be wondering. Well, sometimes it is a nice day living on one of God's most beautifully created islands with not much being asked of you except to relax and enjoy the quietness (like when we first got here). Then, there's weeks like this past one. Both ways are part of His plan.
Monday-- Normal schedule shows that this is the day when we all, minus Maddie, visit a day care center for 2-4 year olds and sing a quick song before a teaching of God's Truth. This week Fr. Joe called up and asked for us to go with him to St. James Chapel for the patron saint's Fiesta Mass. We agreed to have Stacie and Meredith stay behind and be with the young-uns while I took the boys (yes, even Julian. I was feeling brave). The Mass went well and then the chapel was cleared for the meal. Wouldn't you know that right before Fr. Joe was to say the blessing his celly goes off? And wouldn't you also know that right after saying “Oh, I gotta take this call. Very important. I will hand it over to our chaplain now (pointing to me).” Well, now you do know. “Come, Holy Spirit.”
Tuesday-- I put the finishing touches on the bunk bed I was building and we all pitched in to get the house ready for our first, unofficial short-term mission group from India and one visitor from Kahayag sa Dyos in Cagayan de Oro. We postponed our teaching on Tuesday at the high school and excused Maddie for the rest of the day so that we could pick up our visitors at the port. We all greeted each other and then headed out to Cantaan's White Beach. It was a super blessed time as we had the entire beach to ourselves. The high winds didn't stop us from having a great time and I thanked God that the rain clouds were swept away. We enjoyed our picnic lunch, fellowship, swimming in the big blue, climbing the coconut trees, and I had a revelation. I finally realized why we curve to one side with our hands pointed together while at the same time singing in the song “I'm Bananas for the Lord”---because we look like bananas! Ohhhhh, 1+1=2!!!!
We finished up at the beach and headed home to rest before going to the convento for dinner courtesy of Fr. Joe's staff. Dinner was excellent and we all accepted Fr.'s offer for transportation for our mountain visit the next day. We settled on being ready early, which for us non-Filipinos means 8am or after. We stayed up late(r) than we normally do. Yes, it was almost 10pm! We talked about biting the snake's backbone to keep it from squeezing the life out of you or something like that because my eyes were getting droopy by then.
Middle of the night comes and the power goes off. Sleeping here is great with the fresh air from the open windows (when it's blowing), but I still need my fan. I tossed and turned and could not get settled in. I finally got up and went to the front porch and lit a candle. It's still hard to believe how dark it gets every time the power goes out. In the open fields of Kansas, we at least had a lot of moonlight to work with. This time I had to use candlelight to pray and to search Scripture for a topic to preach at tomorrow's visit. With the sea breeze at my back and my drowsy eyes, I soon fell asleep and awoke with the candle just a few inches away and no Bible verse or topic in mind. Ok, time for bed. I finally crawled in and fell asleep with my prayer to have the power back on before too long. “Whizzzz..,” the fan clicked on and my sleep was blessed again. Praise the Lord!
Wednesday-- My plan was to wake up before everyone, eat breakfast calmly, and then go shopping for the food supplies at 7am. That didn't happen. I woke up after a few earlier riser-uppers, skipped breakfast, and headed out from the house at about 8am. I then got a text from Father that said we would be leaving at around 9am! “Sure, Father, we'll be ready,” hit the send button and relayed the message to the group. We split up into two groups-- I went with our Indian visitors Nick and Jeremy to get the 60 kilos broken up into 30 bags of 2 kilos each while Susanna and Eric bought the rest of the items like sardines, noodles, brown sugar, and a powdered drink. So, when my group got done, we headed to the store where Susanna was and texted for Father's jeep to pick us up. Ahhh, everything was going well as we were only a few minutes behind schedule. Screeeeecccchhhh! (insert record scratching noise here) Father called us up and said that he had just been invited to attend a speaker's address of our town of Sagay's 102nd Foundation Day Celebration. There was no telling how long he was going to be! Oh, I forgot to mention earlier how this was a real “short-term” trip for our visitors. They were only going to be with us for about 24 hours total! That meant that they had to leave by 2pm to get to the ferry that departed by 3pm! The devil really hates missions. And I mean REALLY hates missions. I say that because after feeling a little relieved to see Father Joe come out of the meeting his news of the 2nd vehicle we were taking was not so good. He said to wait just a little longer because there was something that became loose under the Mad Max. If you have seen Mel Gibson's 80's movie Mad Max, then you can see where this one jeep got it's nickname. Anyway, just another delay. No big deal. It's only 11pm......11pm!!! Time was really flying and we weren't even on the way up yet! Some sacrifices were going to have to be made. The life of a missionary. Carry out your mission, sacrifice all the extras. Yes, we were all ready to give up our lunch to give the poor all the help we could and share with them God's Word. Nothing was going to stop us.
Finally, Fr. Joe tells us of the completed repairs and that there will be a shortcut we can take to the mountain chapel. Most everyone fit in the blue Suzuki as they drove off without me and Nanding and Arlyn Ocaba. We got the newly repaired Mad Max. All in all we were at least 18 hiking that mountain trail. Many slips and near plunges into certain death (just kidding) but we still made it! The scenery the whole way was spectacular. God knows how to give one a boost at the right time. Just as your legs are throbbing from the climb, it levels out into a clear path or He gives you a great view of the sea or of giant rocks where the next rain will turn into a beautiful waterfall. God is good...all the time.
We made it up to the chapel in different spurts. We rested and caught our breath while some served us some green coconuts and coconut water. With one eye on the clock, we finally worked our way into the chapel where the people had already gathered. We read the beginning of Psalm 56. Our theme was about the importance of prayer and how great a gift it is to know that we can always talk to our Lord. He wants us to talk to Him. Have you talked to Him today? He is waiting...
After thinking, “What the heck am I going to talk about today?” it was time for the Holy Spirit to take over. I had my Visayan Bible and had only paraphrased what Psalm 56 was about. I had a little note that read, “God is on our side. Nothing to fear.” That's it! I was so thankful Teresa had brought an English copy so that I could quickly glance over some more of the key words. As I wrapped up, I gave the floor to Susanna and anyone else who wanted to share. Susanna talked about how someone must have prayed to God for help because here we were. It was true. Carrying food, babies, and the Holy Bible through narrow, muddy, and slippery trails and we were all safe! God willed it. I was also blessed by Nick's sharing of how awesome it is to work together. An even greater feeling is when we visit a foreign land and work side by side with other Christians and sharing the Love as God intended- encouraging and building each other up. I definitely felt very blessed and re-energized to be working alongside others who share the same values. Great visit!
The trek back was not as bad as the other. In fact, it went by way faster. I think mostly because by the time we were done praying over the group and distributing the food packs every minute was ticking down. I think we all had an imaginary clock hanging over us in big red letters saying that we were not going to make it. When we reached the parking area, it was a huge relief to see the two jeeps ready to go. Everyone loaded up the same way and Father double-timed it back to our cottage to get everyone's things together and leave immediately for the port. Our quick mission was successfully carried out and God's will triumphed once again over all of our “roadblocks”.
That was still not the end of the day for me. I have been assigned as a lector at Holy Rosary Parish. True, this was a Wednesday night and not as many people were there as at my first time during the 2nd Mass on one Sunday. Still, I want to try my best and sound a little less like a 1st grader reading Exodus and the Responsorial Psalm. It went fairly well and I think most in attendance got the message...probably because they had to listen really hard to what was being said :)
Thursday-- The day started out with my trying hard to connect to a Skype chat session with the home base in Louisiana. I messed up and clicked something accidentally and thought that I had entirely deleted my Skype account. After almost one hour from our scheduled chat, I finally gave up trying to re-load everything and found the original sitting right there on my desktop. At least we'll be ready for our next try.
Father Joe called us to the convento for a quick meeting. He asked us to go with him to the island's capital city of Mambajao to meet the Governor. He really wanted to introduce us to him because of his strong opposition of the Reproductive Health Bill (RH) which is trying to pass into a law that limits a couple to only 2 children per family. Crazy! If something like this would've passed years ago in the States, I never would've been born as Mom was the 5th of 9 children. Anyway, we penciled in the visit.
Stacie's day to teach in the afternoon for one hour. She usually makes lunch for all of us then puts Julian down for his nap. Today was a little different though. While waiting for Maddie to show up for her lunch break, we were surprised to see her coming down the street with 4 of her classmates. We welcomed them up the stairs and invited them to have lunch with us at our table. The lunch breaks here are from about 11:30am- 1:30pm. Many kids live too far from the school to go home for lunch so they bring their lunch and stay in the classroom, using their desk for a table. On this particular day(as they had a few times before), the girls came to eat at our home. Maddie said we might as well expect them to come everyday. Fine with us. The more the merrier. Each brings her own small portion of rice and maybe a sardine or two. If still hungry, they taste a little “American” food.
Friday-- We excused Maddie out of her classes again and headed out to meet the Governor. We drove up and parked within walking distance of his front gate. Apparently, the whole town was there celebrating his birthday! We entered and met his father who is also a Congressman from Manila. Anyway, we shook hands and were invited into his home to share a birthday meal. Everything was very nice and so tasty. Finally, the festivities were starting to pick up steam as different singers took the stage to show their karaoke skills. Then, all of Camiguin's 5 priests were asked to go up and sing the traditional birthday song. They sounded great, to my surprise and maybe to a few others. Then, Father Joe, being the leader that he is, grabs the mic and starts to introduce our family. I can pick up on a few words describing our mission. Everyone's heads turn to us and suddenly everyone's looking at us! He motions for us to get up on the stage as well as for the Governor. “Oh, this won't be so bad. He'll just have another few words, give a quick handshake, wave and smile a bit longer then we can go,” I silently thought to myself. Wrong-O! I looked over after I heard Father say my name mixed with some Visayan and then he was handing me the mic asking, “Can you say a prayer over the Governor?” My face was saying sure thing but my innards were trembling! It's very difficult being put on the spot like that, but that's why God gives us the Holy Spirit, the Helper. “Come, Holy Spirit, I need You.” I truly believe in the gift of speaking in tongues because my mouth may have been moving and my voice being projected over the speakers but I never heard anything. I later had to ask Stacie what I said :) Whew! 3-pointer for the Holy Spirit!
On our way home, Father gets a call that says he will be hosting the priest's district meeting at his place and that he should have dinner ready. This also means that his missionary family should also be in attendance. The meeting started after a delicious meal and I was the only one left when Stacie went home with the tired children. The ENTIRE meeting was in Visayan. I really gotta learn this language.
Saturday-- Another meeting request at the convento. This was really a nice gesture by Father to translate everything that was said the night before. And wouldn't you know that he closed with a request to have me take his place and open that night's Talent Show for the town's continued 102nd celebration? Well, now you do know.
I guess I must have said the right words at the Governor's place even though I still don't know everything that was said :) At least this time I had a nine hour warning. Evening came and the Talent Show was underway...but not until I opened with a prayer. It is so weird praying at a huge gym and hearing the loud crowd suddenly become quiet and then having my voice fill it with the power of a mic and giant speakers the size of a house! All for God's glory!
Father and I took our seats next to an Evangelical pastor, the Mayor, Vice- Mayor, and other city councilmen. The whole time I was thinking of Ms. Genie back at Big Woods saying how you just take everything as God gives it and follow His plan. Well, we stayed for the opening act of a magician trying his best to entertain the crowd. For us sitting at the very front and at a lower angle, it was easy to see that magic is purely illusion and not a power or force. I now know how 85% of the tricks are done. There is a reason for very loud music(to drown the clicking of buttons), wearing long coats (more pockets to hide the 42 umbrellas), and everything being black (not as visible). Just saying.
Sunday-- Day of rest you say?....hahahahahahahahaahhaahahhahhhhhh. Too pooped to start the day with 1st Mass starting at 630am so we slept in and went to 830am. Before going on our way, we get stopped by our friends, Tata and Tony Credo. They invited us to visit their Kids 4 Christ meeting at 2pm they have only once a month. We accepted thinking we could still make it back to our house and have our Youth Group at 3pm. Everything's fine according to our plan, right? Well, the Holy Spirit was definitely guiding us this week and wouldn't you know that we were invited to come to the church at 2pm for Tita Dolores' anniversary Mass of her late husband's death only we didn't know that's what it was for and we assumed it was for the Credo's prayer meeting? Well, now you do know and are probably as confused as we were.
So, we celebrated the Anniversary Mass and sorted everything out. A dinner was waiting for us at Tita Dolores', but we also wanted to share at least a little bit of our time with the Kids 4 Christ group. Tony introduced us briefly and immediately asked us to share something...anything...ummm....Holy Spirit. Bingo! Just like that we were lead to share how the youth of the world are so important in turning the way this world thinks. It is good for them to start meeting like this and to begin forming their spiritual life through prayer, faith, and good works. We closed with a children's praise song that they really enjoyed. We ended up doing it twice. Good thing, too, because we built up an appetite just in time to celebrate at Tita Dolores' place. Praise the Lord! P.S. In case you're wondering, yes, we had to cancel our Youth Group for this week.

There it is! Our crazy-busy, action-packed, Spirit-filled, Kingdom-building, super blessed week in a nutshell...kind of. We start all over again tomorrow and see where the Spirit blows us this week.


The wind blows where it wills, and you hear the sound of it, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes; so it is with every one who is born of the Spirit.” John 3:8

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Go! Tell It On The Mountain!

Two weeks ago my 8yr. old son, Abram, and I hiked up the mountain directly in view from our front porch. We were headed out with our new friends, Nanding and Arlyn Ocaba to visit with some of the people and to share a reading or two from the Holy Bible. We experienced something special at every stop which is something I will never forget.
The hike started at around 8am. We started off on a concrete road that curved to the right just after leaving our town. Then the fun began. The dirt road was still a little soft from the rain the day before but still not awful. I could see how bad it could have been if it was a later rain. I remembered thinking of Oklahoma clay and how smooth it was. I also noticed that the path started to get narrower and narrower as we went on and soon we were all in single file.
We passed a young girl on her way to school going the opposite way. I said a good morning to her without even thinking about classes having already started about an hour ago. Then Nanding says in his quiet voice, “It's a sacrifice, going to school.” Wow! Here is a girl going to school in her clean uniform with dress shoes (not hiking boots) going down a mountain. It is a sacrifice going to school because there is no bus service and no guarantee of good weather. I also didn't know how long it actually took to get all the way up or down. At the end of the whole trip, we had hiked 8 km. So, in order for this girl to get to class and hike about 4km, she would have had to leave her house by 5am just as the sun is rising here, and not return until after dark! And what if it was slippery?!
We kept on and reached our first house visit. I say house but it was more like a one-room hut on stilts. A family of 4 lived there with the parents expecting their third child next month. They were cooking their lunch on their front porch which was the size of our balcony of our home in Kansas! I think our Master bedroom connected to that balcony was even bigger than their place! And we thought we needed that bigger home. We had so much! I forgot to write this family's name but I have kept them in prayer since especially for the safe delivery of their baby. They seemed happy even though they didn't have much cooking on the fire. After I stumbled through the reading in their native Visayan dialect, we all agreed how important it was to keep talking to God through all of our trials and sufferings.
We pushed a little further up the mountain and came upon a little “village”. I am not sure what it is called but it was a group of about 7-8 homes. Most of the men were out doing farm work while most of the women with their little ones were peeking through their windows to see what was up. We only talked to two women and a grandfather of one of them. We continued the theme of prayer in our lives and how God remains the same age to age. One of the women spoke of how her home needed repairs especially the roof. When she showed me her home, it seemed like everything was in order for the most part. The tin roof does need some work and I thought how easy it would be to patch the small holes with some sort of Bond-O or another plastic filler. She also talked about how they have to arrange themselves in order to avoid the drips in the night. Not much comfortable space left. Still, they manage and do what they must.
The next stop was more for our lungs. Climbing almost straight up takes your breath away. Then there's the view. Wow! If the view of the whole ocean is not enough, the sound of the small creek rushing down some rocks can get you refreshed within seconds. We refilled our canteens with the natural spring water for the rest of our way. We also visited a relative of the Ocaba family after this stop. No sooner had we introduced ourselves than the young man darted off to a coconut tree which he climbed in no time and hacked off about 10 green coconuts with his machete. So, we shared with his daughter a good snack of the “meat” of the coconut and its milk. God is good to His missionaries!
Our last stop was my favorite. Arlyn showed us the place where we were going which was in sight....straight up! We had to stop a few times to give our throbbing quads a rest. I slipped three times. The feeling of everyone looking at me while I was down was very humiliating. I tried to lessen the “lesson” by saying that “even Jesus fell down 3 times”. Then, I quickly remembered that all I had with me was a backpack on my healthy shoulders and not the weight of the world's sins on my beaten, blodied body. It turned out to be a good and final place to stop and rest. The house we visited up there was occupied by a very hospitable family. They were ready to serve us the same gifts(boiled sweet potatoes) we had brought to them from their neighbors at the last visit below! That's generosity! But what made this visit memorable was when Arlyn had asked if we could read from our Visayan Bible. They exchanged some words and I kind of picked up something that sounded like “What religion is he?” Arlyn correctly told them that we were Catholic and not to worry. Then the lady of the house said something else which to me sounded like “Oh, we are Iglesia Ni Cristo” a Protestant sect started by Filipinos. What she actually said was that Iglesia had just visited them recently. Immediately I thought “Oh, no! They beat us here!” Actually, she said that they were there and asked them to convert and be welcomed into their church. These people with great faith answered that they have always been Catholic as their parents and even their grandparents were. Wow! What a relief! So many others here, (just like in the U.S. and other places) have been quick to change, perhaps because they lack proper catechesis or because something “new” seems catchy. I praised God for keeping this family together and also the flock of all of His people through the generations. I shared with them how important it is to keep the same faith that we share with the Apostles and to stay safe within the walls of the Church... “the pillar and bullwark of truth” (1Timothy 3:15). I told them that the Catholic Church is the ONLY church that can trace all of the roots from the first leader, St. Peter, to the current in Pope Benedict XVI. If they were to ask all the others who started their church and when, they would come up with someone from the 13th century at the earliest. (Iglesia Ni Cristo only 97 years ago!)
As we were getting ready to leave, I admired this family's strength to persevere through the difficulties. Not only do they get just one Holy Mass per year, but their crops in the mountains are suffering with weak harvests. The only thing that they can rely on is their coconut harvest. Getting enough to fill a sack may be somewhat easy but going down the mountain with it while balancing it on your head and not falling is another story. It is a sacrifice living on this beautiful island and like Father Joe said just before we left the mainland, “Living on the island is no picnic. It's time to get to work.” Our work and your work is to preach the Gospel. Jesus needs us more than ever! Pray that we are able to continue our mountain ministry, a ministry that will hopefully include food distribution as well as more frequent sharing of Sacred Scripture in the hopes of building a stronger faith community among our hidden brothers and sisters.


Blessed is the man who endures trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life which God has promised to those who love him.--James 1:12